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How Do We Determine Our Value as Women?

The issue with letting people walk all over you is that you do not truly understand your own value as women. You grow up hearing many things the top two of which are either you are a smart and strong girl, or you are a beautiful girl. If you heard both, then you were lucky […]

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advice New Perspectives

Why Comfort is Keeping You from Achieving your Dreams

Let’s think about the end of comfort, the break in its seemingly recurrent consistency.

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inspiration

What do you do when the sun sets? You push the damn brakes!

How do we break through the dread? How do we wake up consistently and find hope everyday? All I know is that it is immensely difficult, and whenever I or anybody else over simplifies the practice of living well, that’s disillusion. Sweat and tears my friends, it takes overcoming negatives in all of their forms […]

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How Do we Take our Lives Back?

See you can have it all, you already are working towards what you want daily, whether you see it or not. I want to help you see it, because I’m practicing what I preach and because I care about the 40 year old you.

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Life Advice: Listen to your big brother

In the probability of you not having a big brother, you could listen to mine. You are most welcome. The beginning of Appreciation Is it me or does it become easier to appreciate your siblings the older that you get? They start seeming more like humans, less like Barbie doll mansion wrecking machines. Do you […]

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Me, myself, anxiety and I: An R rated love story

An article about overcoming anxiety, and learning my way around it

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inspiration Love

On a scale from 1 to pain, how bad are you at love?

How freeing is the concept of loving beyond understanding, beyond attachment and ownership, beyond need and lust? What if you are able to completely see the other person not in their utility but in their own existential value?