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How Do We Determine Our Value as Women?

The issue with letting people walk all over you is that you do not truly understand your own value as women. You grow up hearing many things the top two of which are either you are a smart and strong girl, or you are a beautiful girl. If you heard both, then you were lucky […]

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Are You Weak or Strong? You Can Be Both

Weakness cannot be acknowledged if you were never strong, and strength cannot be perceived if you never once felt powerless. The contrast makes the experience all the more justifiable and magical.

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What Happened to Rose Colored Glasses?

What happened to the rose colored glasses? They have become high tech V R spectacles; but we are still the same. Some questions used to be a lot harder to answer ten years ago, and the thought that 10 years from now the questions I have today will have simpler answers is comforting. It’s funny […]

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Over-thinkers Anonymous

Here’s a one item list that will make your life easier.

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Not All Suffering is Sexy

So ask your brave friend what they do when they are feeling like cowards, ask your friend who is dealing with her trauma through therapy if it’s actually making a difference for her. We must remember that what happens behind closed doors, and what we think and say offline is a huge part of life too.

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When Your Budding Romance Shows its Teeth

And so we look at the person and we suddenly see flaws, some big and some meaningless, maybe a red flag waves high, maybe we plant it there to tell ourselves one thing: THE SPARK IS GONE.

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Fighting Etiquette for Higher Value Outcomes

We don’t always have to agree, you know that right? It surely feels good when we do, but it is not the end of the world when we don’t. Guess what, I can even not agree with you over more than one issue and still like you very much; hell, i can even love you […]